Having a child who is considered to be a late talker can be difficult and confronting for us as parents. Sometimes there is a physical or cognitive issue that causes the delay, however, there are also a lot of children that have no underlying conditions but are late talkers. These children are usually around 18 months to 3 years and communication temptation tasks can help provide incentives to get your child to talk.
What are the Goals of Communication Temptation Tasks?
- Increase your child’s desire to communicate
- Make communication fun
- Establish the power of communication. That is, when we use words our needs and wants are met more easily
- Increase spontaneous use of language
Examples Of Communication Temptation Tasks
- Eat a desired food or play with a preferred toy in front of your child without offering any to him/her. Give only a small amount when the request is made, to prompt repeated requests.
- Offer a non-preferred food item to elicit a protest.
- Offer two alternatives for food, drink or toys to play with and wait for them to try and say a word (even an approximation) before giving the object.
- Activate a wind-up toy, let it stop working and then hand it to your child for a reaction.
- Open a jar of bubbles, blow bubbles, then close the jar tightly and give the closed jar to your child.
- Initiate a social game with your child (e.g. tickles, tossing up in the air, etc.) until they express pleasure, then stop the game and wait.
- Blow up a balloon and slowly deflate it. Hand the deflated balloon to your child or hold the deflated balloon up to your mouth and wait for a response.
- Start putting a puzzle together but keep a piece, so that there is one missing at the end.
- Select an object that your child desires and place it in a container, to get them to ask for it.
- Set up for painting or a craft activity without glue or paints.
- Tell your child they can go outside to play, but leave the door locked.
- Put a familiar toy together the wrong way (e.g. put the arm in the location for Mr. Potato Head’s hat.)
- When swinging in the playground, give your child a few pushes. Then hold the swing and wait.
- Sing a favourite song, rhyme or verse and pause mid song or just before the end of each line. Wait and see if your child can fill in the blanks.
Ref: Kylie Catania, Therapy Focus Inc.
It is important to praise your child for any attempt they make at communicating, even if it is just a sound rather than a word. You want to encourage them to speak. The more excited you get by their attempts, the more willing most children will be to try to talk.
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